Best of the Blog – Part 1

As you’ve probably noticed, this month I’m taking a break from posting new material. There will be more on my reasons and the outcomes of this next month, so keep your eyes peeled for that.

But in the meantime I simply wanted to share with you some of my most read posts from the last 18 months or so.

For each post I’ll share a link to the post along with a small excerpt to give you a taster. I hope you are really blessed by these posts, and I look forward to sharing some new material with you very soon.

Abstinence: A dirty word?

Sex. So often it’s a taboo subject for Christians. I know I’ve never really written on the subject before. As a 30-something single Christian, who has been a Christian and believed in abstinence before marriage my entire life, I don’t exactly have practical experience.

However, recently I read a Gallup survey, done for the prominent Christian magazine ‘Relevant’. It’s results showed 80 per cent – yes, you read it right – of unmarried Christians in the US between the ages of 19-29 are having sex. That despite over 70 per cent saying they thought sex before marriage was wrong.

I have to confess, reading that stat did sadden me…… (continue reading here)

 

Masculinity – Beyond Gender

When writing on masculinity there’s always a danger that you can be accused of being under-qualified. In the church even more so – as a single man in his 30’s it can be easy, both culturally and in a church context, to be seen as not a ‘real’ man because I’m not married.

This kind of sums up the point I want to discuss – that a lot of what we have been reliably informed is what makes a man a ‘real man’ is not actually Biblical, but just cultural traditions which have come through misinterpretations and misunderstandings of scripture.

This post covers both singleness and masculinity – partially because so often the subjects are linked, especially in a church context…(continue reading here)

 

God’s Divine Destiny: The role of women in church

But this is an issue which I care about deeply. The attitude of some male leaders out there and how they have talked about and treated women, and the mistreatment of women even in attitude and tone, has upset me I’ll be brutally honest.

One of my biggest passions is seeing all people, men and women, fulfill their divine calling in God, and be free to become the people they were created to be. When women are limited, criticised, put down or stopped from doing this because of what I consider to be bad theology, that upsets me.

So what I’m going to do is outline briefly the main perspectives on this issue, look at a couple of Bible passages… (continue reading here)

 

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=545161266 Lorraine Wall-Jones

    I looked at these themes James and smiled. Three postings on sex and sexuality and how it should be expressed.

    I guess I will not judge, I walk a fine line with my profession as to what is acceptable, accepting my own sexuality, and judging others.
    I have been hugely blessed by God giving me a fantastic man whom married me (somewhat reluctantly) twenty six years ago. I went for the full white wedding and he ‘submitted’ to that… I guess I was worth it, although it possibly took me a long while to accept it. That is hard for any man to live up to, just ask Paul when he wrote about staying single, and how men should treat their wives.Sex is so temporal, it has no place in Heaven, we shall not need it. It as God’s gift to us whilst we are on this planet. Just read Song of Songs, and know God meant us to enjoy each other. If we do not abuse sex it is (exploding fireworks) and gives us a unique bond with another human. I have witnessed the negativity with sexual abuse, but that is about expressing power over others rather than of love.Sexuality should not used as a weapon of mass suppression, which alas Church does. It hurts to see women struggling for recognition, homophobia, and I simply have lost all the ability to be bothered. If men wish to place themselves above women then they are going to struggle to ‘see’ Jesus in Heaven as he will be surrounded by heavenly bodies that used to be women.  Cf Matthew 20 and the last being first. He did have women anointing his feet, and significant in many times. Where were the blokes in his hour of need? Ohh yes asleep, then go on and deny him …. although I think that was Peter’s learning curve, gutted he had let Jesus down.

    Just a few reflections
    God Bless
    Lorraine

    • http://www.jamesprescott.co.uk/ James Prescott

      Thanks for your comments Lorraine – yes, have tried to bunch them up into similar topics and will be for my other ‘best-of’ posts.  Great to hear you thoughts and thanks for being so honest – I agree with you. 

      Thanks again for your comment :-) JP.

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